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Originally Posted by jwz  Ladybug, thanks for the advice. 
I get what you mean (and I pretty much agree) but by living like this, I don't feel that my life is evolving to the life I want to have. It feels like I'm stuck in time or something.
But you're right, I should spend my sparetime much more wisely, especially because I don't have very much of it. |
Yeah, it does feel like that sometimes, especially when a lot of time passes and you think about what you wanted to do and haven't done it yet and you wonder, "what the heck just happened?!". If you have made a list that will help and I have noticed with myself that I can only make a list of one, two or three things to focus on during the weekend, if I want to make any progress forward. I have good intensions to follow through with the huge list, but it never gets done if it's too long and then I procrastinate. Try to focus on something small, but important to you, so once you finish that if feels like you have accomplished something...and you have! Make it important, but something you feel confident doing. If it scares the crap out of you right off then you may not get yourself to push forward until your confidence builds from other things you have accopmplished. I realize the list I gave you was vague and probably not at all what you would do with your time, but you get the idea and I know once you start, you will start to feel great!