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Originally Posted by danas  So now I dont know what to do...
Do I go with my heart and give us another chance. Or do I trust Erin's words, let go and wait till I find Mr man from abroad?
Maybe she was right, sometimes I really feel that.
but sometimes I think that Im just afraid of the real thing, looking for a bigger better deal |
That part about not knowing what to do is the same pattern that caused difficulty before that you describe
(I also realised that I was never fully present in this relationship)- that you weren't really in it. If you can be really in it then take it on. That means being able to decide you want to make it work with him. Until YOU decide that it will just be like before and a reading will probably say the same thing about it. But if you do decide, that ambivalence on your side will not cause the issues in the relationship you used to have. I'm not psychic but just noting the pattern, perhaps.