Well if you don't like taking orders there's not point trying to get a job where you have to take orders. Trust me I know
There are jobs out there where you can work independently, you just have to really look for them and be patient. i suppose it would help to have a degree of some sort, because there are office jobs where they want you to be able to work autonomously.
Or you can start your own business.
I'm trying to do both. In fact most of the jobs I have had I have worked autonomously because I know it's the only thing that works for me - lol! If I have to work for a company it will only be ever if I can work pretty autonomously. I can't work with people sitting right next to me, looking over my shoulder it just freaks me out - lol! I've just come to accept that this is who I am, and I'm not going to change it to suit others. I did that and never worked.
Now you can try and force yourself to work with other people, like I did for many years or accept the fact that you don't like working with other people and you will find a solution to working not close to someone else.
Take the latter, so you don't waste years of not staying in jobs and wondering why - he he!
Once you know what suits you the best, write it down, then see if you can write down what careers would suit you ie;
Project manager
A large firm that has one inhouse designer, as opposed to a design team where you know there will be a design manager
data entry operator who works from home
writer
etc
I remember seeing something on Oprah the other day, there was a writer on her show. He said I became a writer so I wouldn't have to work, I liked that way of thinking.