Here's the song I hear you singing, Chado: "I can't, I can't, I can't!" And what I hear you saying through that is: "I'm not willing, and I've got my reasons!"
You are holding on so tightly to your pain and to your reasons, Chado, that nothing anyone says to you is going to penetrate your skull. No one here or anywhere else can do anything for you. When you are ready to surrender and accept that you are the person who is responsible for how you feel, then you have the power to feel good on purpose. If you would like my help, please let me know when you're willing to feel good. Until then, you are fine exactly as you are -- you will survive. But I think you'd like to do much more than survive, right? You would like to be the Master of your Moment, wouldn't you?
Best wishes to you, sweetheart.
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