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Originally Posted by Honeywith4bees  I was thinking about what Aspiring to Clarity said in one of her posts when her boyfriend broke up with her. She said something like, she loved him enough to respect his desire to be on his own. Chad, do you love your ex enough to give her the respect of leaving her alone? Now, how about starting to love yourself enough to focus on recreating a life for yourself that works for you. I think you need to let go of the thoughts about your ex. I think you are spending too much of your energy thinking about how you can get her back, how you can be her friend, and not enough time thinking about you and how you can befriend yourself. Let her go.
Then follow some of Belles advice. Life will be good again. |
How can I be a good friend to myself, knowing I've left a damaged relationship in my past? Knowing I shattered the heart of a person I care very deeply for? I feel so terrible... I feel so worthless. I've ruined the best relationship I've ever had... and I'm just supposed to let it go, without doing anything to make it better? That doesn't seem to make sense. I hate myself so much right now.