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Originally Posted by Spartan  Yes, this is my goal, to become indifferent to outcomes. I have realised that if you are comfortable with your own values, then it doesn't really matter what people are thinking about you - if it's negative then they just have different values to you. I can accept that they're different to me, so if they can't accept my difference then I have no time for them. |
I think that in order to become indifferent to outcomes, you have to change your desires or expectations first. I think it's harder to hold on to your old expectations and after the fact try to change/suppress your emotions.
This is something I'm working on too! I think it takes daily practice to get those unrealistic expectations out of your mind.