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Originally Posted by Jasmine  Rockchick, I can’t help but think that you may have some issues with your father, which is somehow tied into all of this ( I read your post on another forum). You need to deal with that first.
You remind me of me a bit (nose and all) I could never find the right guy either for years. I think males can pick up when a female is desperate (and don’t say your not) you might be coming across as too intense for them as I did. Some of the best relationships start out as friendships first you know.
By the way I got married at 39, and my husband is 10 years younger. |
I'm sure my dad has something to do with all this,for sure,although really i think school kids had more to do with it. Honestly,my dad was AMAZING my entire childhood,he didnt start to get bad until after my parents divorced,when i was 17. But i had a serious self esteem complex starting in like 2nd or 3rd grade. I was shy so the popular girls didnt like me,and then in junior high it got worse because my skin was bad and my parents didnt buy me all the "in style" clothes,so i really think my problems originated with school kids teasing me. The thing with my dad,i dont think it has affected or changed me as much as it just irritates and pisses me off. I KNOW what he says about me isnt true...where as the stuff my classmates said,that happened when i was at an impressionable age,so thats harder to shake. I still dont get how people think i'm desperate for a guy though...i dont do dating sites,i dont go out looking for men,i pretty much keep to myself,and i could have other guys but i choose not to. I think i come off as desperate because i really want this rock star guy,but thats not a good indication of how i am in general with guys. If you ask me,it's impossible to be picky and desperate at the same time,and i'm the pickiest girl i know! lol