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Revolution · 02-28-2008, 01:01 AM

Chad,
You need to be more calculating in your endeavors.
Why for instance did you decide to JUST pay your girlfriend with a visit?
What were you thinking?
Shouldn't you have softend the ice a bit with a text message/email/letter/phone call etc first before running over to visit unannounced?
It's as if you were subconsciously wanting things to hit the fan.

Sometimes it all just gets too much and things start to get on top of you.
Like a vicious cycle - things don't go well - then you think/feel badly or negatively - which causes events to go even worse - and then you *choose* to feel/think even more negatively - which causes things to get worse again - and then what do you chose? See the negative cycle here?

Remember, the law of attraction basically states that if you keep thinking "oh this sucks", "my life is crap", "why?", where did I go wrong etc etc. then life will grant you those wishes my friend.

As for affirmations, - they take time and persistence. So when you start with affirmation like "I am loved" or "I am happy" then everything that keeps you from being happy or loved just seems to fly in your face (or does it?)

You see, what is actually happening is that your current life is not vibrating at that level and so when you do your affirmations you change your vibration in your mind - but things in your life are still not in accordance this new vibration - so there seems like a massive contrast and you REALLY notice it.
Well, that is actually good, because it shows you where you are going wrong.

So, to clarify my point, if you notice that with affirmations things only seem to stay the same or get worse - don't give up - just change the things that are not "right" in you life.
Affirmations are (at first at least) very much like a filter that shows the contrasting elements in your life - more clearly than before.

I'm sure you (or others) are not at the point of contemplating suicide but I have seen a lot of that talk on this site - so here is my advice - don't do it because challenges don't go away that easily. You are here to create the God that you are - that is the point and the purpose of life - get it?

Also, don't have too much coffee or sugar or salt - just trust me on that!
Thats not to say that you need to deny yourself of everything either - just use judgement.

The above advice for you (while good!!!) is admittadely more on the esoteric side of things - for more practical advice I don't need to repeat what Belle said.

02-28-2008, 01:01 AM	#6 (permalink)
Revolution Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 151	affirmations Chad, You need to be more calculating in your endeavors. Why for instance did you decide to JUST pay your girlfriend with a visit? What were you thinking? Shouldn't you have softend the ice a bit with a text message/email/letter/phone call etc first before running over to visit unannounced? It's as if you were subconsciously wanting things to hit the fan. Sometimes it all just gets too much and things start to get on top of you. Like a vicious cycle - things don't go well - then you think/feel badly or negatively - which causes events to go even worse - and then you choose to feel/think even more negatively - which causes things to get worse again - and then what do you chose? See the negative cycle here? Remember, the law of attraction basically states that if you keep thinking "oh this sucks", "my life is crap", "why?", where did I go wrong etc etc. then life will grant you those wishes my friend. As for affirmations, - they take time and persistence. So when you start with affirmation like "I am loved" or "I am happy" then everything that keeps you from being happy or loved just seems to fly in your face (or does it?) You see, what is actually happening is that your current life is not vibrating at that level and so when you do your affirmations you change your vibration in your mind - but things in your life are still not in accordance this new vibration - so there seems like a massive contrast and you REALLY notice it. Well, that is actually good, because it shows you where you are going wrong. So, to clarify my point, if you notice that with affirmations things only seem to stay the same or get worse - don't give up - just change the things that are not "right" in you life. Affirmations are (at first at least) very much like a filter that shows the contrasting elements in your life - more clearly than before. I'm sure you (or others) are not at the point of contemplating suicide but I have seen a lot of that talk on this site - so here is my advice - don't do it because challenges don't go away that easily. You are here to create the God that you are - that is the point and the purpose of life - get it? Also, don't have too much coffee or sugar or salt - just trust me on that! Thats not to say that you need to deny yourself of everything either - just use judgement. The above advice for you (while good!!!) is admittadely more on the esoteric side of things - for more practical advice I don't need to repeat what Belle said.