You have to change your outlook from everything that's bad about you to everything that's good. Create a positive vibe for yourself. If you have that birthday on your own, make it the best darned alone birthday it can be! You're no loser, you're a winner! Think happy thoughts about you, be positive!
Why? Positive people attract friends and opportunities like honey to the bees. (Negative people have quite the opposite effect, more like water repelling fire)
Positive people have all the power!