Hey, Jamie, just wanted to say I'm really sorry about your sister. I have had friends who tried to commit suicide before. There is not really anything like that feeling of helplessness when someone you love does that.
I think everyone posting has great points. The most wonderful thing you can do for her is to be there. It will be up to her whether she decides to open up and actually accept your support. I think if you try to "fix" her or the things she's going through, it would only backfire. I can see how much you want to help...it's only natural. Just be strong and available and loving. I believe she will come to you. And when she does, she will be really ready for what you have to offer.
Another note I would add is not to bash her partner to her. In my experience it makes them hold on tighter, like there is something to prove. She knows what he's like and she knows you know it too.
Lots of love, strength and peace to you and your sister. I'll be thinking of you guys.
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