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Originally Posted by Jamie  I guess, it's more in terms of building a trusting and open relationship, so she completely knows that people are on her side, and want the best for her, and will help her to help herself in her own way, pace, and time. To find her own clarity, strength and power, which is what I want for her. |
Why don't you start with this? Be(come) the person who is on her side. The one that she can completely trust and come to for help.
I'd give her a simple message: "I feel for you and hope you'll be alright. Call me, if there is anything I can do to help you."
Keep sending that message, but also give her a chance to come to you when she chooses to, when she's ready.