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Originally Posted by Angela  Rockchick, are you seeing a therapist? Do you even WANT help? The major message I get from you here is "I want (exactly specifically precisely) what I want, and I'm not willing to change anything about myself or let anyone's -- not even people who HAVE what I want -- advice in so that I can have it! Why can't I have what I want?"
I don't think you're going to move towards your desires as long as you're so stuck in your thinking.
The good news is, it's easier to move than it is to think or argue about moving! |
lol No i'm not seeing a therapist,i figured posting in here might be cheaper LOL In all seriousness,i guess i see this differently,i dont see so much that i'm UNWILLING to change,i just dont see WHY i have to. I mean yeah i'm not getting the results i want but first i want it to make sense to me before i do it. Like i dont understand why i have to change all this stuff about me when nobody else has to change to get what they want (maybe not people in here but people in MY life that I see),and this stubbornness is because when someone tells me to change,to me that means they dont like the way i am,and this is what i was saying in that other post,this is why i feel i have to defend myself. I feel like nobody can accept me the way i am,which makes me want to hold on it even more. Do you think this is a much deeper problem and that i SHOULD see a therapist?