Well, when I finally get back home from this training, barring a deployment, we'll seek some help. I don't really know where to start/who to contact. It certainly isn't a subject we are shy about discussing, just not sure of the next step.
I must say though, it is an exciting thought of my wife having a sex drive! After we were married she told me she had never had an orgasm cause her dad broke that. Well I didn't buy that for a minute, and after LOTS of enjoyable practice (months), I succeeded!! So that gave us the impression things were getting better. But perhaps they still can get better
, we'll hope.