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Originally Posted by JimOfferman I'd say you're suffering from the grass is greener syndrome...
...when, as far as I can tell, the grass is not greener at all on the other side of the street. |
I agree. You have this great life that you say you are happy with and you are letting a past romance from 18 years ago effect you?

You have a wonderful wife who has been with you and birthed 2 children that you also adore. You need to stop right now before you screw up the life you have an end up miserable like your ex! Fix what you need to with your wife. Stay in your marriage and work on that. Don't run to a fantasy life that is going to end up sucking! Your wife deserves that from you, just like you would deserve that from her! This is your companion that you chose and you have a family with her. Focus on that, not your ex.