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Originally Posted by Jennihul  I noticed in another post of yours, you lamenting your lack of relationship and your tone was one that was very wanting and very needy. Angry even. Certainly sad. I'm not sure if that was pre-bad evening or post-bad evening but you have to live your life as if you need for nothing, that it's perfect already, that anything else you get is icing on the cake. Otherwise you aren't even near the emotional place you need to be for this to work. If you have to fake it, so be it. But why not really LIVE IT that way? You'll be much more successful in all areas of your life.
Gratitude toward your friend would have been more appropriate, for giving you the perfect experience where you could see, incarnate, the man you don't want to have. For the contrast needed to conjure the feelings you need to attract the man you do want. |
Well i didnt need my friend to show me what kind of guy i dont want,i have known what i dont want for years LOL (and what i want,of course),it just seems to be repeating itself over and over,why does it have to keep happening? I KNOW what kind of man i want,the universe shouldnt have to keep ramming it down my throat what i DONT want. And i'm not sure which post you are referring to where i seemed angry and sad,but it was most likely AFTER the big letdown with that guy i was after. I felt angry because i truly thought this was going to happen and i truly beleived i was doing everything right,and i was just upset to find out i was wrong. I know its wrong to have bad feelings,but my bad feelings only happen when i get my hopes up for something and then am let down. Its only because i put so much faith into things. I thought faith was a good thing. :-l