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Originally Posted by LoveFreedom  One more thing, part of the 'process' is letting go. The universe knows what kind of guy you want, you made it clear enough. Now to let the universe do its job, you need to let go. Desperately seeking him everywhere is not a good vibe. Have you noticed that people often say that they found their best relationships after they stoped searching.
let go and have some fun. he will come. most likely not until your life is good and you feel great with or without him. |
But i am not "desperately seeking" though. I only went out with my friend to catch up with her,i was disappointed when i learned she had invited some friends out with us. If i was desperately seeking a boyfriend,i'd be on dating sites,or going out to bars alone to see who would pick me up. That couldn't be farther from who i am. Thats why i dont get how people are getting this "desperate" vibe from me. I have this guy that is kinda after me right now but he only wants sex,and he is GORGEOUS but i refuse to answer the phone when he calls because i want more than sex and i'd rather not deal with him at all since that isnt what i want.