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Originally Posted by LoveFreedom  But the night you desribed had more to do, at last in my opinion, with your relationship with your friend. She re-appeared in your life after two years; did she need another girl for this double date?
Why did she re-appear? What were your motivations to go out with her? Why did you stay with them all night? I don't want to sound judgemental, but it seems strange - if you are working on IM and LOA to expose yourself to the WHOLE evening of negative feelings that the guy clearly evoked in you (and justly so if he kept making stupid, sexist comments)?
Don't dismiss these questions. Maybe you did attract this guy... to teach you something, to show you ways to further self-improvement. It is important to value your time as part of valuing yourself, if you want to atract a great relationship.
Good luck! |
My friend reappeared only because she didnt have a computer for the last year and a half and she had a baby. I went out with her just cuz i simply wanted to catch up on things. I stayed all night because i had been drinking and i didnt want to drive until i had sobered up. I wasnt drunk though,barely even buzzed,but i just wanted the alcohol to get out of me before i drove. Thats why i didnt leave earlier than i did. And as for the guy maybe being there to make me learn something,that is interesting,because apparently i am not learning,since this is usually the kind of guys i always attract. Although there have been exceptions. I think its mostly just cuz i have spent more time in bars than anywhere else so of course i'm going to attract bar scum.