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Originally Posted by CPUNeck  would and have never made my wife feel bad about her sexual issues. It's not her fault. But just being real there are times I just wish it was normal. What lengths would I go too, to achieve this... pretty far. Because I know how wonderful it can be. Probably my largest problem is me being narrow and not seeing how after such trauma, one could ever be normal with it. |
Have you two, or at least her, ever made a long, concrete effort at removing her issues? I understand something traumatic happened to her, however,I also understand that people can work out the traumatic event so that event no longer affects them anymore and they can have a healthy sexual relationship. It may take years, or a long time of concerted effort, however I have heard of people succeeding in this. Or did you guys just assume it wasn't possible to overcome this issue bought on by this traumatic event and thus decided you would have to live like this for the rest of your lives?