CPUNeck,
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I would and have never made my wife feel bad about her sexual issues. It's not her fault. But just being real there are times I just wish it was normal. What lengths would I go too, to achieve this... pretty far. Because I know how wonderful it can be. Probably my largest problem is me being narrow and not seeing how after such trauma, one could ever be normal with it.
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But what pains me is why don't you and your wife go to a sex councilor? What can be such a pleasurable activity but both of you have turned it into a service.
You seem to have given up on your wife, her troubles, her interests, her passions, communication with her...almost everything. Or you might be taking your wife for granted. Or it seems you want the warmth, security, familiarity and love of a wife and family and at the same time want to explore the excitement of ... YOU SEEM to behave like a kid let lose in a candy store. Wanting, desiring everything...