Well, each of you has separate interests, but seeing as how you married each other, isn't it worth seeking out common ones as well? I think shared interests and communication are what make a LLTMBR (and break it if it's not present.)
If you're not willing to even look for shared interests (or create some), if you are just completely resigned to believe they don't and can't exist, then that's what you get. I think you and your wife could really benefit by some generous listening to each other.
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