Hi Rockchick26, sorry to hear about your awful night. As I read your post I kept thinking that your night might have nothing to do with the perfect guy that you are attracting. The perfect guy may still be coming - in its own time. He may be busy with some closures of other relationships or geting experiences he needs befor he meets you. you never know.
But the night you desribed had more to do, at last in my opinion, with your relationship with your friend. She re-appeared in your life after two years; did she need another girl for this double date?
Why did she re-appear? What were your motivations to go out with her? Why did you stay with them all night? I don't want to sound judgemental, but it seems strange - if you are working on IM and LOA to expose yourself to the WHOLE evening of negative feelings that the guy clearly evoked in you (and justly so if he kept making stupid, sexist comments)?
Don't dismiss these questions. Maybe you did attract this guy... to teach you something, to show you ways to further self-improvement. It is important to value your time as part of valuing yourself, if you want to atract a great relationship.
Good luck!
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