[Rockchick26]

Last night i went out with a girl friend i havent seen in 2 years. She (unbeknownst to me) invited along 2 guy friends,and it felt like a double date. I was NOT happy. The friend she was interested in was good looking,in shape,funny,intelligent,fun to be with,i could go on. The guy i "got stuck with" was overweight,bald (the opposite of my type),rude,obnoxious,perverted,and annoying. He made sexual comments to me,kept touching me and bothering me even though i had my back turned to him and barely talked to him all night. Did this happen because i subconsciously attracted it? I dont see myself as any of those things,i'm the opposite of him in every way,so how could i have attracted it? As some of you know,i've been trying to attract this specific guy but then realized a week ago that isnt working so then i decided to just focus on the type of guy i want,not anyone in particular. So if i've been doing that,how did i get the complete opposite?! I tell ya,this IM stuff seems to backfire on me,when it comes to meeting guys :-l I honestly thought it would be different now since i've been intending true love,but even my thinking doesnt seem to matter,i always attract guys like this no matter what positive feelings i've been having.