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Originally Posted by evelynlim  Love is also a commitment, a conscious decision. And not just a rush of feelings or the passion of the moment. |
Yep, definitely.
CPUNeck, it seems you're attached to the rush of feelings that you feel when you think about your ex.
Wake up mate, your ex is not special
Your wife is not special either
You are not special too.
There is no special people. Love is a counscious decision to
build a connection that grow stronger and stronger with time, but basically you can choose to build that connection with anyone. The initial rush of feeling is great, but temporary.
With that in mind, it's fine if you choose to be with her, but I wouldn't advise to do it only because of the rush of feelings and hoping to be more fulfilled on the long term.
Does she have similar goals and values with you ?
Do you think she can help you grow?
Can you help her grow too?
Can she help you and support you for your projects in life? Can you do the same for her?