I've known about the secret for about a year now. Haven't really been practicing it since my life turned pretty good right after. New job, apartment and then a promotion.
Some months ago I fell in love with a woman at my workplace that I don't really know. It was just something about the way she said hi once that made me feel all fuzzy, and now I'm head over heels, sleep little, eat little.
But still I've never been happier.
I've applied all the techniques, and it's working pretty good. Our eyes meet, one day I heard she asked about me and just a couple of days ago she landed on the same shift as mine (we work 2 weeks on, 3 off. she used to arrive one week after me).
That's all well and good, and I'm confident it'll happen, but then again, obviously not confident enough
. Problem is that we work in different departments, so there are extremely limited opportunities to meet her. She also lives a thousand miles from me, so it has to be at the work place. I know she's at least interested in me some way, so I'm not afraid to contact her on my own. What I'd like to hear some input on is if I should continue my current routine, or step right to the action part? I know how to reach her through an internet site (mutual friend of ours told me, so it wouldn't be 'stalkerish'), and I could always hang out in the bar hoping to see her (which of course, I will).
I know I shouldn't force it, so what do you think? Is direct contact at this point forcing, or should I wait some more to see if it's brought to me?