And if all is well your desire to attract more sex and beautiful women into your life will urge you to work on yourself to reach that goal. Beautiful people attract beautiful people, so you have to make sure you're attractive to the women you want to attract. I suggest reading about it, there's a lot of free information about it on the internet and there are a lot of books on how to "get every woman to like you". Although they usually focus on the fact that their readers want to score as quick as possible, when reading such books you will not only learn how to get women to like you, but how to be a more likeable person in general, improve your social skills et cetera.
To get you started:
How to Seduce a Woman: The Natural Way
A lot of useful information in the free pages of that site. They're also trying to sell you a book, which might be a good investment. You could also search the internet some more or visit your local library. If you want to reach your goal, you should have a strong desire to do so. I believe visualizing will help increase your motivation to act upon your desire. The acting consists of getting to understand what women want, where and how to meet singles and how to be attractive yourself.
Well, good luck Precious!