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Originally Posted by Jamie  I like the notion of uncontrived naturalness. In some ways, modification to your behaviour, specifically to attract a member of the opposite sex, can perhaps lead to a less genuine (and more fearful) you, and it's just not worth the loss of integrity. |
Being genuine and having integrity would be two of the very most important traits I would look for in a partner. I don't want a faker. A facade is difficult to maintain and only breeds resentment -- not to mention fear that you are never loved for who you
really are. Does that make sense?