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Originally Posted by Rockchick26  I guess i just dont meet enough guys for my chances to become greater. |
So basically you aren't happy, you saw this fantasy in your head, it made you happy, and you started clinging to it, that way you could ignore the other things in your life that you had more control over. If you're not meeting guys do something about it. Stop making excuses.
This fantasy you have is the perfect way to AVOID intimacy. You know it's not going to happen with this guy. So as long as you chase HIM, you can AVOID having your emotions be involved with a man in the REAL WORLD.
You've had plenty of time alone but you don't love yourself. You've already picked yourself apart and said reasons that guys wouldn't want you. Then you go another step and say "fine then I don't want you either" before they get a chance to meet you. You being so picky about men is a perfect way to prevent them approaching you and a perfect way to avoid real genuine human interaction.