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Originally Posted by Angela  (we've got a couple of threads going!)
Well, one way you might want to transform your thinking (if you want to feel better) is to let go of the idea that you can *get* any guy, this or any other. If you *get* a guy, then you're stuck trying to *keep* him -- the idea that you can get, keep, or lose a man is nuthin' but illusion.
I'm suggesting you approach relationship as something to generate and to give away, as opposed to consider that you need to *get* someone or something. You might want to try being the source of the love you want, and let go of trying to find it or get it. It's amazing what is drawn to you when you generate it yourself! |
I understand what youre saying...I guess the phrase "get a guy" sounds too materialistic and self centered,but i could word it "attract a relationship" and it means the same thing to me,just bad choice of words. I am not in this for the hunt and the thrill of it,i WANT a true loving lasting meaningful relationship.
I was also wondering,how can this happen for other people,without even using LoA? I know people who are selfish,immature,mentally and emotionally unstable,yet they can still attract relationships. I even had a relationship once without trying to attract one into my life,so i dont get why suddenly now i have to change in order to attract one. If it worked once,why cant it work again? And why do some people never hear of LoA yet relationships just fall into their laps even though they are emotionally immature and selfish?