(we've got a couple of threads going!)
Well, one way you might want to transform your thinking (if you want to feel better) is to let go of the idea that you can *get* any guy, this or any other. If you *get* a guy, then you're stuck trying to *keep* him -- the idea that you can get, keep, or lose a man is nuthin' but illusion.
I'm suggesting you approach relationship as something to generate and to give away, as opposed to consider that you need to *get* someone or something. You might want to try being the source of the love you want, and let go of trying to find it or get it. It's amazing what is drawn to you when you generate it yourself!
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