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Originally Posted by Angela  Fantasies are pretty darned powerful... you believe them and belief feeds more belief. Pretty soon if feels like not having your fantasy come true is a real threat, and it inspires what feels like real fear. The worst part is that it blinds you to the wonderful real life that is right in front of you, and robs you of opportunities for real relationship that are right here, right now. |
But thats the part i dont get...how is this a fantasy when it just involves a different person? We're all just human beings,i have just as much of a chance to attract him as i do any other guy,just like a million dollars is the same to the universe as one dollar. Its not like i am dreaming...this guy is REAL! He is going to end up with some girl out there,why it couldn't be me just doesnt make any sense since we're both humans and we're all the same deep down.