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Originally Posted by moonrambler  First off, I don't know what level of rock stardom this guy has achieved, but musicians (let's focus on men for the moment) who are successful on just about any level know they can have a bazillion women anywhere they go, and I think almost all of them get to reading women pretty good from a mile away.
Maybe he's not interested in finding a soulmate now, maybe he just wants to be free. Maybe it's not meant to happen right now -- maybe later. Maybe you project some sort of "vibe" that he knows you are likely to be hurt if he gets involved with you. You're already hurt, and you don't even know the guy!
Or, he could have just had a bad day and didn't want to stand out in the cold. Who knows. You're not reacting to any of this in a healthy way, though, as cylon said. You're certainly not accepting one of the tenets of LoA which is "This, or something better." |
I know im reacting in a bad way,i tried to deny it,and see the bright side (at least he posed for a picture with me) but the more i repressed it,the more upset i felt. I couldnt control my feelings any more and i just had to admit it was bothering me.
I know he is looking for love though,if you didnt read my other post,he said recently that he is looking for someone to help him love again. He's looking for exactly what i am looking to give! I didnt understand how our vibrations were not matching.
You are right though,i completely didnt leave it up to the universe to do it for me,i kind of expected it to happen my way. But thats only because what other way CAN it happen,if i only meet the guy once or twice a year? Wouldnt it have to happen on one of those days? But yeah youre right i should remember "this or something better",its just hard for me to give up on what feels right to me. I guess i always stick with one thing until i want something else then i can easily let go of the first thing. But i dont like to abandon hope for something unless i can SEE a better option. I guess i'm good at being loyal,but not open minded.