I agree with ALG. Plus, even the most skillful practioners of LoA, like ALG, who are manifesting *stuff* -- external material goods and circumstances -- usually must allow: that is, time probably will pass before fruition, and that's why I think using the LoA to manifest ways of being -- internal circumstances -- is far more powerful and fun. You can instantly manifest any inspiring way of being right now -- why wait?
For instance, you want the perfect partner to be attracted to you? Generate being the perfect partner. I don't mean "perfect" as in flawless, I mean be the mate you want, and love your own life perfectly -- exactly as it is and exactly as it is not. Be the warm arms, be the qualities you dream of finding in another person. Be those things for yourself and for the world, and not only are you cutting out the middle man of external circumstance, you're also creating yourself as the person around whom what and who you want will naturally fall into orbit. It feels good to be what you want.
Probably the single most important quality I've learned in generating relationships I love is Freedom. If you require another person to relate to you in a certain way or you'll be disappointed, angry, or upset, you are sure not generating freedom! And no wonder people would pull away from you if they're getting that vibe. As a matter of fact, if you have "total faith" in anything that upsets you if it falls apart, you're generating a space of no freedom -- that is, you're holding reality hostage to your own desired way of being. Let the hostage go! Feel good on purpose.
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