Yup, that's so. And -- I think when you're committed to living a life you love and/or building a loving, long term mutually beneficial relationship, habitually going to bars can really get in your way. I'm not saying it's 'wrong' or that you *shouldn't* do it. I'm saying that when you're feeling good on purpose, focusing on a LYL and/or a LLTMBR (ssfata*), you start to see other environments to put yourself in that work better.
*so sorry for all the acronyms
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