Yes agree with the other women that I don't want a dominant man- but also don't want a submissive man- basically don't want an insecure man!
When I was dating two guys at once, I really appreciated the one who just accepted it and left it alone and never pressured me to pick him- willing to wait because he would've been fine alone and had no need to dominate me or interefere between me and other guys. Eventually I came to my own decision that I wanted just him and there he was for me, but if I'd decided otherwise he would've been sad but fine being alone and eventually finding someone else. It wasn't dominance at all, but it was courage and trust and independence and patience- all very attractive traits.
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