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Originally Posted by Jamie  Aspiring,
What if you were in a bar, and your dream guy approached you, he seems very nice, all good so far; until, some dudes come in and start hitting on you, and intimidating your dream guy, who runs off.
If the guy isn't dominant, or doesn't have back-bone, it's not exactly good is it, and what about being protective of the girl?
What do you think? |
Well, I don't think he has to be "dominant" in order to not run away if some other guy comes up to me. Being dominant and having a back-bone are two different things. My dream guy would not be intimidated in that scenario, probably just amused at the absurdity of it all. In that scenario dream guy and I would walk away and continue our fun. What kind of guy comes up and starts hitting on someone who is with another guy?! Not one I want to talk to. But that doesn't mean dream guy has to protect me from him. No need to get into a pissing contest in the club. I am a person, not anyone's property to protect.
ETA: @Erki -- yeah, true. If some unwelcome guy was hitting on a female friend I might step in to help her out. I guess in that sense, dream guy could say something, but it's not an instance of me needing a big, strong man to protect me from the other man. You know?