the last guy I was with followed me. He let me lead all the time, and although it was nice that he agreed to go everywhere with me, it wasnt good in the long run. If I told him lets jump on a plane and go to Africa tomorrow he would miss work, take a loan and come with me.
I would decide everything and I couldnt stand it. the relationship didnt last because of this.
Im dominant I guess, and it is easy for me to initiate fun things to do. but still I prefer a man that despite my strong character can still lead the way, at least half the time.
It makes me feel like a woman, it makes the man feel that he is needed. and admired.
I now put an image of a man leading a woman by the hand on my vision board.
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