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Originally Posted by Jamie  I have my own thoughts, in that it's knowing EXACTLY, what YOU want, and going for it in a very clear and concise manner, perhaps even with an outer, or external gentleness, but internally, knowing exactly what your agenda is, and following through, not being intimidated by any other guys, or implied threats of violence etc.
What do you guys (and ladies) think? |
This implies CONFIDENCE. For me, dominance implies the man is out to control me and the risk of loosing my own power. I love it when I feel a man can protect me, but this does not mean I want him to dominate me, it is more a sense of emotional security.
I love it when he is strong enough to set boundaries, cause without them, I will try to dominate him and then the love is lost. Hmmm, I think I'm getting your point. I do play a power game.
But, is this not an ego type of love or attraction? I'm great at the ego stuff and have recently set a goal to get past this.
It feels like I have a lot to learn with this thread. Thanks for posting.