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Originally Posted by Angela  Oops, that's you, making his junk your own. Rather than responding to him directly because it would cost you too much, you end up BEING HIM all over other people. You're reacting alright; it's just a delayed reaction. Then the people who you explode around have to deal with it; it's a domino effect until someone stands up and says, No, Thanks.
You don't want to do that, do you? Don't you want to be powerful and loving and self-expressed with everyone in your life? |
Well,nobody has ever told me to shut up when im complaining about my dad LOL They completely understand because he does it to them too,so its kinda like we all form our own support group for it LOL And with my friends who dont know him,i usually just say oh i had a bad day with my dad and we talk about it for a few minutes then the subject is over. I'm actually a really positive person,maybe i came off on here as being a mirror image of him,but i just posted this after i got back from his house so i was more upset than usual.