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Originally Posted by Rockchick26  But to me,i already dont react to it. Thats why i pretty much explode when i'm talking to people about it,BECAUSE i dont react to him. Whenever he makes his comments i either am too shocked to think of something to say or i just keep doing whatever i was doing like it never happened because i know by reacting i will only make him more mad. This feels one of those situations to me where i'm damned if i do,damned if i don't. |
Oops, that's you, making his junk your own. Rather than responding to him directly because it would cost you too much, you end up BEING HIM all over other people. You're reacting alright; it's just a delayed reaction. Then the people who you explode around have to deal with it; it's a domino effect until someone stands up and says, No, Thanks.
You don't want to do that, do you? Don't you want to be powerful and loving and self-expressed with everyone in your life?