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Originally Posted by Rockchick26  So basically youre saying to cut him out of my life? That doesnt seem like the right answer because then he'll only be more upset,how am i fixing things by running away from him? |
At first, he will be. But eventually it will get him thinking.
You are fixing them by giving yourself time away from his constant judgement to figure out the way you would like your relationship with him to be, to heal your emotional wounds, especially your frustration towards your dad about him treating you unfairly (which he is!), and to grow as a person and to put this relationship and its troubles in a different perspective.
If you manage to do that then one day you will be able to have a good relationship with him. Arguing to no end or giving in to whatever the other party demands, or ignoring the problem altogether is not a solution either.