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Originally Posted by smartile  Hi Rockchick26,
You seem pretty heated over this. It sounds like your reacting to your dad's behavior. Make a new choice to be loving with your dad - NOT ONLY before you see him but make a choice to be loving during every moment that you are with him.
Make a new choice, change the way you're being and behaving and you'll influence your dad. |
But to me,i already dont react to it. Thats why i pretty much explode when i'm talking to people about it,BECAUSE i dont react to him. Whenever he makes his comments i either am too shocked to think of something to say or i just keep doing whatever i was doing like it never happened because i know by reacting i will only make him more mad. This feels one of those situations to me where i'm damned if i do,damned if i don't.