Hi Zoomorphic, I'm having a sucky Valentine's too.
Possibly most people online right now don't have a date - unless this is their idea of a hot date: being on the Steve Pavlina site
Don't worry, you'll meet the right guy at the right time. Just focus on the benefits of being single and having time for personal development and enjoying the things that you do as a single person.
I understand the desire to go looking for someone, but if you go to bars hoping to meet the perfect guy you may well meet some very undesirable drunk, leery guys!!
Have you tried online dating? I've never done it but I know several people who've ended up in great relationships and you can get to know someone before meeting.
Maybe Steve should add it to the forums!
Anyway, best of luck and remember you never know what life has in store for you, so try not to be anxious but rather celebrate your singleton status.
DLH
