Zoomorphic, first of all, are you texting this? It's exhausting to read that texty language.
Regarding Valentine's Day -- forget about it. It is merely a marketing device for certain industries to milk cash from the unsuspecting public. It doesn't mean anything about you, and it doesn't mean anything about love.
Regarding your dating habits -- a girlfriend of mine once gave me some great advice which I naturally ignored at first because I thought it was stupid, and it turned out to be life-altering. Say yes to any man who asks you out (within reason, of course, no ax-murderers or Kenny G fans) because you will get the chance to see in the mirror of his eyes what is desireable about you. Go on the date so that you can give yourself the gift of accepting his interest and admiration. And also so that you can practice generating interest in him, no matter what your pre-conceived ideas about him are. Date to find out more about yourself and about other people. Date for fun! Don't date to have someone to assuage your misery about Valentine's Day.
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