Hey, zoo. I am not sure if I have the answers to all your questions, but let me give you something to be thankful for. You are young! I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 25. And he broke up with me only a little while back...right before our anniversary and Valentine's Day. All I am saying is it could be worse!
But seriously, I am not an advocate of "going with the next guy willing to date me regardless of how I feel about them." I doubt the relationship would be fulfilling in any way in that case. However, I am all for being open to new experiences and different types of people which you may have previously blocked out (thanks to recent threads). If you want to attract a certain type of guy, embody and generate the qualities you would like him to have. And also go to places where you can enjoy activities you really like. There you can find someone who shares your passions. If you like bars or clubs, sure go. You might run into Freelancer or Fullcrum and they'll show you a good time.
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