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smartile · 02-14-2008, 02:36 PM

Hi Rockchick26,

You seem pretty heated over this. It sounds like your reacting to your dad's behavior.

The word RE-ACTION is taking action that is repeated from your past. You're RE in ACTING your behavior from your past. Every time you're with your dad you're RE ACTING the past. When you start being present and stop reacting, you will be able to make a new choice and behave differently. Make a new choice to be loving with your dad - NOT ONLY before you see him but make a choice to be loving during every moment that you are with him.

Make a new choice, change the way you're being and behaving and you'll influence your dad.

Stephen Martile — Personal Development Made Simple

02-14-2008, 02:36 PM	#5 (permalink)
smartile Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 372	Hi Rockchick26, You seem pretty heated over this. It sounds like your reacting to your dad's behavior. The word RE-ACTION is taking action that is repeated from your past. You're RE in ACTING your behavior from your past. Every time you're with your dad you're RE ACTING the past. When you start being present and stop reacting, you will be able to make a new choice and behave differently. Make a new choice to be loving with your dad - NOT ONLY before you see him but make a choice to be loving during every moment that you are with him. Make a new choice, change the way you're being and behaving and you'll influence your dad. Stephen Martile — Personal Development Made Simple