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Originally Posted by emf  Have you ever run across adults who will continue to escalate things unless you enter a state of lower consciousness? They work really hard to generate anger/fear/guilt (it doesn't seem to matter which) and don't seem to have the same behavioral boundaries that you do. They will escalate situations very coldly and relentlessly until they get a response. Your negative feelings seem to give them a rush that they need. Do you have any suggestions on how to handle them safely? |
Oh, yes indeed I have encountered people who act as you described. Insisting on sharing their pain and drama with me. I can see one of them in my minds eye from another day insisting in his way that I join in anger with him and dance to the bubble of unconscious and uncontrolled thoughts and emotion.
I handled this person by detaching from her with love and not being around her when I had a choice.
What do you do when you encounter such a person?
Gene