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emf · 11-27-2006, 02:14 PM

Have you ever run across adults who will continue to escalate things unless you enter a state of lower consciousness? They work really hard to generate anger/fear/guilt (it doesn't seem to matter which) and don't seem to have the same behavioral boundaries that you do. They will escalate situations very coldly and relentlessly until they get a response. Your negative feelings seem to give them a rush that they need. Do you have any suggestions on how to handle them safely?

11-27-2006, 02:14 PM	#3 (permalink)
emf Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 27	Control Freak or Emotional Vampire? Have you ever run across adults who will continue to escalate things unless you enter a state of lower consciousness? They work really hard to generate anger/fear/guilt (it doesn't seem to matter which) and don't seem to have the same behavioral boundaries that you do. They will escalate situations very coldly and relentlessly until they get a response. Your negative feelings seem to give them a rush that they need. Do you have any suggestions on how to handle them safely?