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Originally Posted by Rockchick26  How can i be creating this,when he's like this with everyone? I TRULY feel (and no i dont think this is my ego talking) that we are all victims,its obviously not MY fault if he's like this with other people too. So according to this book,i cant fix this situation. |
The book is right. There are no victims.
You create all your experiences, either consciously or unconsciously.
The outside world is a mirror of yourself.
What you see out there is denied inside.
Your father is reflecting back to you the part of you that is very critical of yourself. You may not even be aware of the self-criticism in your thoughts.
Are you wrong a lot? (throwing the pickle and tomato off the burger
is probably wrong)
Is it a problem? No. Receive that you're playing with being wrong. "Oh, look, my dad is criticizing me again, there must be something
in this moment I need to pay attention to about myself. I guess I'm choosing to make myself wrong right now and I'm not aware of it."
And then feel what's going on inside you emotionally. See what you find.
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If I've totally lost you let me know and I can try to go at it a different way.