Hi everyone,
I have realised that I have some conflicting values and wanted to change them.
For example; my #1 Value is Freedom, my #2 Value is Love and my #3 Value is Financial Success.
I've only recently considered this and I can now see how this has caused more than a few challenges in my life.
Anyway, I've decided on my new Values, which are more congruent and non-conflicted.
But the question is this:
How do I condition my new Values so they become 'real'?
I mean, my existing values are so strong and automatic that I often can only see what's happened after the event.
Although I try to live 'on purpose' it's pretty clear that many things I've done have been decided unconsciously; based on my Values.
Where do Values come from anyway? What causes ones Values to form in a certain hierarchy?
And can we change them just by writing the list in a different order or adding and/ or taking away a certain Value?
I would really appreciate any help from any of you smart people.
Thanks, DLH
