I know the title sounds like it only happens to women... well, in fact I never met a guy who
wouldn't want to have sex (not that I asked, but just so it seemes).
Let me tell you where I got the idea for the thread with two examples of two girls in their early 20s.
Girl n1: She said (to her female friend) she doesn't want to have a boyfriend because then she would have to have sex.
Girl n2: She recently ended a relationship. She said (to me and another friend) that if she was still together with his boyfriend they would probably just get high and have sex. She said it in a way like she's relieved from all that tedious stuff now. (I sighed a bit, cause I actually like this girl and guess what I'd like to do...
)
I tried to come up with some explenations and let me tell them:
1. (So I read) Biologically, women get horniest in their late 30s, as opposed to men who get the horniest in their late teens.
2. There is more potential work/annoyances involved in having sex for women than men. (More organizing, more worries, periods...)
3. Some women don't know how to enjoy sex, don't have orgasms...
Did I miss something else?
Do you think it's sexuality in general (including solo, lez..) or were those two girls in the example only referring to sex with men (bad experiences and stuff)?